Sunday, August 19, 2007

Prayers are answered


8-16-07 (started) – 8-19-07 (continued)

Now for an update on Kit. The original plan was for her follow-up surgery to be three or four months down the road once she had recovered from the first surgery. This would have been an arterial bypass and reconnection of the bowels. After nearly three weeks in the hospital, she was discharged Thursday (8/9), and by that evening she began having pain in her side again. My sister-in-law Dee was staying the night with her, and when Kit seemed to pass out in the middle of the night, Dee called 911.

We were told that her vital stats dropped so low in the ambulance that she probably wouldn’t have made it if they had come much later. Once she arrived at the hospital, they were able to stabilize her until the surgeon came in to see her. He seemed very worried and decided to go in right away for exploratory surgery, but he warned us that there might not be anything he could do at this point.

He had to remove another foot of her bowel (making about 4 ½ foot total), and he decided he had to do the bypass right away to save the rest of bowels. She made it out of the surgery, but it was obvious that the doctor was still very concerned because she would be sick for the next few days as her body had to flush out a lot of toxins, etc.

She made it through the critical period, and on Tuesday, the surgeon went back in to reattach the bowels. That surgery also went well, and the doctor himself seemed visibly relieved when he came to speak with us after the operation. We’ve been told that she’s not completely out of the woods yet because of her age, possible complications and simple fact that she has to recover from three operations in just over three weeks, but she appears to be on the mend.

Many prayers have been said on Kit’s behalf, and we are grateful for each one. She has been greatly blessed as have we all. Thank you very much for the support and caring. Until we meet again.

Pete the philosopher




7-29-07 (started) – 8-16-07 (continued)

Well, we’ve been home for a few days now, and we’ve had time to reflect and ponder. Okay, in reality, between visits to see Grandma at the hospital and keeping the kids busy with normal summer activities, we’ve finally had time to clean out the RV and put everything away (almost). The question I’ve been asked on more than one occasion since we’ve been home is, “Would you do it again?”

My answer to the question is, “In a heartbeat!”

Now, with that said, I wouldn’t recommend this type of trip for everyone. Becky is a good sport, and I personally thrive on this kind of traveling. I love seeing new places and people, and I like the combination of seeing major sites as well as having the opportunity to stay away from the big tourist spots. Having the RV was a great way to experience different aspects of the country.

I also kind of enjoy having to figure out on the go a plan to make things work out. Traveling through New York City trains and subways with three kids, a senior citizen, a stroller and wheelchair definitely took some flexibility and creativity. Years ago when Becky and I traveled through Europe, this kind of thing was much easier with just the two of us, but the challenge of this trip was kind of cool too. If you don’t like a bit of chaos in your life, this kind of trip may not be the best option.

I certainly plan on future RV trips (and believe it or not, Becky’s even on board with this) although we may wait a few years for the kids to get older before we tackle a cross-country adventure again. Although I love our old, beat-up RV that actually made to the East coast and back, I wouldn’t mind upgrading to a little nicer rig at some point.

Happy travels everyone, and I’ll leave you with John Greenleaf Whittier’s words that I try to remind myself of every so often:

God pity them both! and pity us all,
Who vainly the dreams of youth recall;
For of all sad words of tongue or pen
The saddest are these: “It might have been!”